“A Fearless Love” Debra Zickafoose - December 28, 2014 - Bonding, Older Child Adoption, Real Adoption Stories, Transitions 3+ “A Fearless Love” Debra Zickafoose - December 28, 2014 - Bonding, Older Child Adoption, Real Adoption Stories, Transitions 3+ I expected that my new daughter would need some time to get used to me, but I never thought she’d be frightened by me.