How to Lobby Your Employer for Adoption Benefits Elizabeth Mair - June 15, 2016 - Adopting, Cost & Timing, Preparing for Parenthood, The Process How to Lobby Your Employer for Adoption Benefits Elizabeth Mair - June 15, 2016 - Adopting, Cost & Timing, Preparing for Parenthood, The Process For working people who want to adopt, the need to take time off without pay may put adoption beyond your financial means.