“Becoming Craig’s Mother” Genevieve Choate - October 20, 2014 - Living with Openness, Openness, Real Adoption Stories “Becoming Craig’s Mother” Genevieve Choate - October 20, 2014 - Living with Openness, Openness, Real Adoption Stories My younger son’s arrival signaled the end to a decade of heartache due to secondary infertility. So why was I so sad?