“Our Son’s Direct Connection with his Birth Mother” John Sonego - February 3, 2015 - Living with Openness, Openness, Real Adoption Stories “Our Son’s Direct Connection with his Birth Mother” John Sonego - February 3, 2015 - Living with Openness, Openness, Real Adoption Stories Our sons stay in touch with their birth mom through a P.O. box…and something a little less tangible.