“What to Expect When You’re Not Expecting” Lori Bolton Fleming - June 6, 2014 - Real Adoption Stories, Surviving the Wait, The Process “What to Expect When You’re Not Expecting” Lori Bolton Fleming - June 6, 2014 - Real Adoption Stories, Surviving the Wait, The Process Without sonograms, morning sickness, and kicking, you have to find the joy in your own “moments” as you wait to adopt.