“Two Very Different Paths to Attachment” Mary Ostyn - May 26, 2016 - Bonding, Bonding & Child Care, Real Adoption Stories “Two Very Different Paths to Attachment” Mary Ostyn - May 26, 2016 - Bonding, Bonding & Child Care, Real Adoption Stories Our kids both came to us at 20 months old, but bonding with each child required very different tactics.