“Hand-Me-Downs: Growing Up in Foster Care” Paula McLain - June 13, 2016 - Adoptee Voices, Bonding, Older Child Adoption, Real Adoption Stories, Transitions 3+ “Hand-Me-Downs: Growing Up in Foster Care” Paula McLain - June 13, 2016 - Adoptee Voices, Bonding, Older Child Adoption, Real Adoption Stories, Transitions 3+ People kept taking us, a threesome of foster kids, into their homes. But we never stuck.